I am here today to talk about being a proactive patient.<\/p>\n
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I don’t care if you have stage 4 cancer, are perfectly (disgustingly) healthy, or act as a caregiver to someone who is ill.<\/p>\n
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This one is for you.<\/p>\n
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(Ok, I do care, and wish we were all disgustingly healthy.\u00a0 But you know what I mean).<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n This is the deal.\u00a0 The days where we went to one doctor and took what he (and I do mean “HE”) said at face value are over.\u00a0 Done.\u00a0 Kaput.\u00a0 \u00a0This is your health we are talking about, the very essence of your life.\u00a0 We need to build relationships with good doctors, and demand the best care available.\u00a0 I don’t care how little money you have, or what insurance you are stuck with, we pay for a service, and we deserve the best results possible.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n It’s your life.\u00a0 YOU<\/strong> are responsible for overseeing it.\u00a0 That can’t be delegated.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n So how do you become proactive?\u00a0 It starts with your choice of doctor.\u00a0 If you are insanely healthy, you may only have one doctor (how quaint).\u00a0 If you are fighting a disease such as breast cancer, you have an army of medical professionals.\u00a0 I personally command a medical oncologist, radiation oncologist, cardiologist, plastic surgeon, surgeon, and primary care physician.\u00a0 I also have a physical therapist and lymphedema therapist on call.\u00a0 I feel like a general ordering maneuvers most of the time, but its the only way I can feel like I have covered all the bases.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n What to look for in a doctor, whether it is one or ten?\u00a0 Here are a few of my thoughts:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n 1.\u00a0 How accessible is the doctor for questions?\u00a0 Two of my doctors have cell phones where they can be reached 24\/7.\u00a0 Two more have an on-line messaging service; I always receive prompt responses.\u00a0 Two others are mainly available by phone, but I find that they respond quickly so that is ok.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n You should NEVER<\/strong> have to wait weeks until you have an appointment to have questions answered.\u00a0 You should not put up with unanswered messages.\u00a0 \u00a0Part of healing is keeping calm, and that is difficult if you are under constant stress from your medical providers.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n 2.\u00a0 Demand better.\u00a0 Don’t look at it as a second opinion.\u00a0 Treat it as an interview.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Go to meet additional doctors, listen to their views on your health, and ask questions to see if this is someone you can work with.\u00a0 Are they willing to work as a team with your other doctors?\u00a0 Ask questions about alternative treatments and recent research to see what their reactions are.\u00a0 Make sure they are a good fit.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n 3.\u00a0 Make sure your doctors are willing to listen to YOU<\/strong>.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n You have concerns.\u00a0 Are they being taken seriously?\u00a0 I see too many people being diagnosed with advanced cases of their disease because it took too long to diagnose.\u00a0 It infuriates me when this happens.\u00a0 \u00a0There are infinite diagnosis tools out there, but doctors need to listen to us and validate that we know something is wrong.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n If you are brushed off, see #2.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Once you have doctors in place that make you comfortable, it is time to research<\/em>.\u00a0 <\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n I don’t mean you should spend all your free time on webmd looking for diseases you might have.\u00a0 But after discussions with your doctor, go on-line and make sure you understand what you are being told.\u00a0 And that there isn’t more to the story.\u00a0 Confirm side effects, and check for drug interactions that may have slipped past your doctor and pharmacist.\u00a0 There are many reputable sites for medical information.\u00a0 If it sounds wacky, it probably is.\u00a0 But make notes and ask additional questions of your doctors.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n If my doctors aren’t rolling their eyes by the end of my appointments,\u00a0 I don’t feel like I’m doing my job as an informed patient.\u00a0 \u00a0Bonus points if they tell me to stay off the internet.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Finally, find a support group, either local or on-line.<\/em>\u00a0 <\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n These are your people.\u00a0 They are your tribe.\u00a0 They have been through what you are facing, and have tips and hacks.\u00a0 And some may be at your stage of treatment, so you have someone to face it with.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Facebook has groups for pretty much every medical condition.\u00a0 They are an information rich environment to learn from others, and hear about treatments your doctor may not be doing.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Just a few safety pointers, though.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Do you feel comfortable sharing in the group?\u00a0 Are other members respectful to each other, and do admins enforce group rules?\u00a0 Is there any vetting of new members?\u00a0 \u00a0Are admins or other members actively trying to market products or services to you (a sign that the group is not about support)?<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Remember that anything you share on-line is immediately out of your hands, so you want to ensure that you have a safe environment.\u00a0 It should be a place you feel at home.\u00a0 If not, you may want to keep looking.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n And that is my primer on the first steps to becoming an informed health care consumer.\u00a0 \u00a0There is too much technology at our disposal to not be an active participant in our treatment.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n And remember, the key word is “eyerolls”.\u00a0 \u00a0That means you are doing this right.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"