I have been giving a lot of thought to the face of breast cancer. \u00a0What is it? \u00a0As breast cancer patients and survivors, I sometimes feel like we are one dimensional to the outside world. \u00a0Other people have vague ideas about mastectomies, chemo or radiation. \u00a0 But you treat it and it goes away, right?<\/p>\n
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Or not…<\/p>\n
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There are so many faces to breast cancer:<\/p>\n
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*The 30-something young mother, bravely fighting her original cancer, and finding out in the middle of chemo that it spread to her bones.<\/p>\n
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*The two-year survivor who still experiences paralyzing anxiety and PTSD.<\/p>\n
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*The 30-year old who beat breast cancer, but still faces a hysterectomy and a lifetime of worry.<\/p>\n
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*The 40-year old survivor who fights debilitating leg pain every day, but still laces up her sneakers to try to walk her way back to a healthy life.<\/p>\n
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*The single mom battling stage 4 cancer while trying to make sure her kids are cared for.<\/p>\n
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*The 40-something who dreads every doctor appointment, because it feels like Russian roulette with test results.<\/p>\n
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*The 20-something woman making funeral arrangements after her treatment options were exhausted.<\/p>\n
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These are all faces of breast cancer. \u00a0I know because these are my friends and sisters. \u00a0One of them is me. \u00a0 We are all real, and we are everywhere. \u00a0We may be your mother, sister, daughter, neighbor, co-worker, or friend. \u00a0We may look well but we are in pain, no matter how long we have been finished with treatment. \u00a0Don’t mistake our optimism for peace. \u00a0We are just putting on a positive face while we attempt to regain our lives. \u00a0We turn to each other for support because it sometimes feels like no one else can understand.<\/p>\n
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So be patient with us. \u00a0Don’t question our pain. \u00a0Dont assume we are fine. \u00a0Just help us blaze a path through it. \u00a0We do not want to be faceless. \u00a0We want to build a community that reaches across cancer. \u00a0And no one face can do that alone.<\/p>\n
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